We are currently on an “international break” in the soccer world so what better time; as an Englishman, to forget about soccer and write a few words to cover our start to the season. For those of you not au fait with an Englishman’s perspective on soccer, it basically revolves around supporting a deluded team of party boys who would prefer to appear on an episode of “England’s coolest haircut” than actually win the World Cup for their country. Oh, and there is also the issue of Wayne Rooney’s temper but that is the tip of a Titanic’esque iceberg.
Turning my attention to far more interesting matters, I just want to say a massive THANK YOU to the club/players/parents/siblings/pets that have made me and the other coaches feel so very welcome in such a short space of time. I can speak for all of the coaches when I say that we are thoroughly enjoying working with the boys/girls and have enjoyed every minute so far. This even includes the Long Island JSL’s field management, Islas Malvinas’s truly crazy approach at coaching U8’s and what can only be described as a Ukrainian vocal deluge from the guys at Chernomorets.
That said, I guess these things only reinforce why we do what we do at SC Gjoa. We don’t want parents/coaches screaming at kids for 80 minutes as we want them to make their own decisions on what they see at the time. Only last night I played in a 7 v 7 game in Manhattan with Coach Steve and made numerous wrong decisions. At the age of 32 I am still learning the game so if your son/daughter makes that “mistake” in a game, take yourself back to when you were 8 or 9. Did you ever fall off your bike by accident or spill a drink on your parent’s new carpet? Exactly: I know I did!
At SC Gjoa, we don’t want kids playing in fear of reprisal for misplacing a pass or missing a shot. We want them to play, enjoy and discover the right way to play and achieve success over the long term. Sure we could teach the players to win games right now but who remembers the win-loss record of the team they played for when they were 10? I would prefer to teach everyone how to play the game properly so that; should they choose to, they can go on and have successful college and even professional careers. Do we dare to dream that high?
Looking round the soccer world today, it is clear that a few trends run through every successful side. That ability to keep the ball until there is space to attack. The desire to defend & attack at electrifying speed. The mix of young flamboyant minds with old disciplined heads! I guess that is why we are looking at teams such as Barcelona, Bayern Munich and Manchester United leading the way this season. Did you know that Barcelona have scored 21 goals in their last 5 games and how Bayern Munich have conceded only 1 goal since the start of the competitive season whilst also scoring 28 goals of their own? If you aren’t watching already, why not try and catch some of these games and see if you can learn a new trick or five?
My soccer ramblings aside, there are a few important messages that I would like to mention which will hopefully keep us on the right track for the rest of the season and beyond –
- I appreciate everyone has busy lives but please try to get your child to practice on time (at least 5 minutes before start time). Whilst it may only be 10 minutes they miss, this equates to almost 3 hours of lost learning (2 sessions) over the whole season. It is also very hard for a coach to start a session with so many players missing. Also, if your son/daughter will be absent from training, please do everything in your power to notify the team coach by text/e-mail as soon as you can as session plans are often number specific.
- Code of Conduct – I have made 2 additions to the original document which are as follows
- Players - be supportive and encouraging towards team-mates at all times regardless of the score or perceived individual performance.
- Parents - refrain from coaching their child during training and/or games. This will only confuse the player and distract them from the coach’s instructions for the game which will always be based on what has been worked on in practice.
These two points are very important to me and my coaching ethos. The first one has arisen out of a few issues of blame being placed on certain players (mostly GK’s) during games. The players need to understand that all players are responsible if we concede a goal and all players are congratulated when we score a goal. It’s a team game and we want team players.
Re the second point, this is pretty self explanatory and is hopefully
something that will differentiate us from a lot of the parents that I have seen
supporting some of the other teams. Hopefully this will encourage more players
to join SC Gjoa as will offer something different from the “win or die”
attitude I have seen from most clubs so far.
- Results & Performances so far – As a group, me and the coaches have been very happy with the games so far and feel that we the players are improving every week. Please remember that they are learning new things all the time and what might be learnt by one player in 2 weeks may not stick with another until week 10. We are totally fine with that and hope you are too. This game is all about development and I work on a “slow and steady wins the race” basis as opposed to the “smash & grab lets all scream at the kids until they win” approach.
- Player reports - Having considered this issue again, we have decided to give only 1 player report as opposed to the 2 suggested at the parents evening. We feel that the players are just starting to feel comfortable with their respective coach and any mid-season report would not reflect their true ability. This will be provided at the end of the season and will be distributed to the parents of each player.
Well I think that about does it for now. I am always happy to chat about anything and everything (Soccer related or not) so please reach out to me with any comments/opinions however crazy you think they might be.
I look forward to seeing you all on the field soon and please feel free to bring snacks for us coaches. It’s tough out there I tell you!
Yours in Soccer,
Dean Selvey